Let me start by saying that i always try to be fair, respectful and nice. I try to keep it real and practice what i preach. To not hurt people and to be a good friend. So i consider myself to be a nice person. As nice as society allows me to be.
So today i had a thought after reading a post somewhere on +Bubblews about +Prostitution
Basically my thoughts on it are that it is legit work. A mutual agreement between two (or more) adult people to exchange pleasure for currency, or a favor or whatever. It's a fair exchange of service in my opinion. I have never used those services, but i have nothing against women who consciously decide to earn in this way.
And then BOOM - a contradiction. Suddenly im hit with: What if i have a daughter one day and she becomes a prostitute when she grows up?? No! No! No!
So it's a double standard because if i really though it to be okay then why would a thought of my daughter becoming a prostitute some day bring up such a negative emotion. Any psychologists/psychiatrists on Bubblews to shed some light on this?
Then a little later i met with a friend and i was talking about an ex-girlfriend and sex stuff. Suddenly im start talking about group-swinger type stuff, and i say i wouldn't mind us calling a girl or a couple of girls to join us. But then the thought crossed my mind about inviting one or more guys to the mix... Again, BOOM - contradiction...
Another double standard. So it's okay for my girlfriend to share me with other women, but it's not okay for me to share her with other guys? That's unfair and as i said at the beggining of my post, i always try to be fair.
So you see my contradictions and double standards. It's not a conscious decision that i make to have them, it's just something stronger than me. And it''s not like im a teenager anymore, this should not be happening. So there had to get it off my chest...
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